So, now that 2025 is behind us and a new year is starting, I'm curious: What are you all looking forward to this year? What are your plans, your desires? What fantasies do you want to see coming true, what kinks do you want to indulge in?
For me personally, I've always been a little embarrassed about buying toys, but I think this year I actually want to try some. Like a fleshlight, a chastity cage, a buttplug. I want to really push my limits this year and come out of my shell.
I have a fuck buddy and we are spending more and more time together. So hopefully that will become a close friendship beyond the sex. He is the top, and I have really blown him away with my sexual skills. I have bought some additional toys and lingerie, I already had a fleshlight which I have used on him. I also want to be caged occasionally, I think I could go for a month, I have assgasms when he fucks me, so I will not miss cumming from my shenis.
Buying toys is a fun experience. The embarrassment and shame can also be fun but most of all just that where ever you're getting it from their job is to deal with stuff like that every day, you won't be the weirdest, sluttiest or most naive client they've ever had by far. You'll be just another cutie buying some pleasure. Getting things online helps but then it's got to come in the mail and that can be tricky if you don't live alone. I always prefer buying in person. If you're really struggling just pretend like you're there on a dare or for a joke present that can ease the tension on you. While the staff won't believe you, it might help settle your nerves. If you are buying I recommend getting a smaller dildo, something that vibrates, a simple sleeve toy, a cock ring, a small plug, lots of lube and a toy cleaning spray or solution. Have the most fun and freely free to message if you'd like any more pointers or encouragement.
Oct 8, 2025
Too late for this year, but I think I'll in on Locktober next year. There's something so vulnerable, yet exciting, about not having access to your own genitals for a whole month. Not being able to jerk off whenever you feel like it. Having to find other ways to find pleasure.
And above all, I hope I can find a Master or Mistress who will hold my key, and literally be in control of my penis. Knowing my freedom is in their hands, not mine. And knowing they can tell me to do almost anything, for a whole month.
